How can you teach kids not to interrupt when two people are talking?

How can you teach kids not to interrupt when two people are talking?

Kids could do things that may irritate you at times. One of such things could be interrupting you while you’re on a call, using the laptop or speaking to an adult in person. Kids always tend to ask what they need at the moment. They might get all frustrated when not heard to.

They could keep calling at you while you talk and have no patience at all. But you got to teach them now before they do it again after growing up. Although, it may be difficult to teach your little one to have patience and wait for the talk to end, knowing how to insert itself in a conversation or waiting for a pause until they talk is a key for maintaining and building healthy future relationships and a sign of strong mannerism.

Teaching your child not to interrupt in between:

This could be a process and may take time for your kid to learn and understand. Make it a practice. Follow the few things suggested below:

Discuss what to interrupt about:

Teach your kid about the things he could wait for and the ones that could be interrupted for. Discuss and give examples to your kid of the do’s and don’ts. For instance, they could interrupt if there is a knock on the door or their younger sibling is hurt, but not when they simply want to show the drawing they’ve done or if bored. Practically the things that could wait and that could not.

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Inculcate proper manners:

Teach your kid the different ways or words to be used while interrupting someone. It could be a use of words “Excuse me”, “Sorry but..” or if the kid is trying to talk to you, he could simply say “Mom?” and wait for you to react. But you need to remember, to politely respond to your kid and let him know if the interruption could wait.

Do not answer immediately:

Parents quite often get annoyed by the interruption of their kid and respond in an ill-mannered way. but then they, happen to answer them in the next breath. Do not do that. Wait for a pause in the conversation and then turn to your kid and ask him what it is.

 

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Use symbols:

Another great way to teach your child to interrupt themselves while you have a conversation is by teaching them certain symbols. It could be a pat on the wrist or shoulder or by pressing/ squeezing your palm. But you need to respond by pressing back to let your kid know that you will get back at him.

But make it quick in the first few uses of these symbols to let your child know that this method works. And if it is taking a bit long, press it again after a while to send an idea that you have not forgotten.

Plan Ahead:

You could inform your kid in advance if you are going to get on a call or have a guest home and be occupied with it for a while. This would let your kid tell you if there is anything and also you could give him a task to have him busy with until you are done with your conversation. This could be a busy box to have your child distracted and not bother you.

Need to do yourself:

As a parent, it is equally important for you to note your manners. You may tend to immediately correct your child for interrupting you in front of everyone but do not realise that your approach itself is rude. So be respectful and respond by saying “Could you wait a minute” or “I’ll be with you in a minute”. It also helps your kid learn appropriate communication skills.

Do praise them:

Now kids will never miss on doing something if you happen to appreciate them for their behaviour or things. You could praise them for using proper communication like “excuse me” and then waiting for their turn. Or for your kid remembering to disturb the talk only for a valid reason.

Whatever it may be, it will take time and practice for the little ones to learn. Stay calm and give time. It will get better as they would begin to understand.

Summary:

1. Teach your kid the reasons for the interruption and discuss the methods.
2. Keep them informed in advance and have them occupied with something.
3. Do not revert immediately and neither corrects them there itself.
4. Appreciate them later.

How can you teach kids not to interrupt when two people are talking

Teaching your child not to interrupt in between

Discuss what to interrupt about

Inculcate proper manners

Do not answer immediately

Use symbols

Plan Ahead

Need to do yourself

Do praise them

Malathi

Malathi A Ganesh is a B. Com Graduate, NTT, M.A (Lit), PGDEA (PG in Education Administration), PGDCA (PG Diploma in Computer Application), DTE (Diploma in Teaching English), ICEPT (International Certificate in Education Preschool Teaching) from Singapore and B. Ed. She has been in the field of education for the past 20 years and has an experience of running her own pre-school She is the Founder & Director Academics of Smartkidz Educare India Pvt Ltd with 275+ play schools Pan India. She is an Educationist and a Child Psychologists by profession who wants to fulfill her dream of giving Quality Education to children in their earlier years. She is also into conducting positive parenting workshops, which talks about effective child rearing. She has conducted numerous parenting workshops in all her pre schools, schools and MNC’s.

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